Remove historic automatic inclusion of IDN support when
building internationalisation support. This doesn't
fit now there is a choice of IDN libraries. Be sure
to include either -DHAVE_IDN or _DHAVE_LIBIDN2 for
IDN support

This was causing confusion: DNSSEC queries would be sent to
servers for domains that don't do DNSSEC, but because of that status
the answers would be treated as answers to ordinary queries,
sometimes resulting in a crash.

This fixes build time warnings with POSIX.1-2008-aware c libraries.

Thanks to Stephan Zeisberg and
american fuzzy lop http://lcamtuf.coredump.cx/afl/

This reverts commit 88a77a78.

A least one client has been found which breaks with this change. Since
the use-case is not clear, I'm reverting the change, at least for now.

Dnsmasq's startup script seems to assume users always want to use
dnsmasq as local DNS resolver, and tells resolvconf to put
"nameserver 127.0.0.1" in /etc/resolv.conf
The problem with this is that if users just want to use dnsmasq
as DHCP server, and put port=0 in /etc/dnsmasq.conf to disable
the DNS functionality, they end up with broken name resolving.

Put a basic check in the startup script that skips resolvconf
configuration if a line starting with port=0 is in /etc/dnsmasq.conf
This doesn't cover all cases (e.g. configuration could also be in
different file in /etc/dnsmasq.d), but is better than current
situation.

Adds option to delay replying to DHCP packets by one or more seconds.
This provides a workaround for a PXE boot firmware implementation
that has a bug causing it to fail if it receives a (proxy) DHCP
reply instantly.

On Linux it looks up the exact receive time of the UDP packet with
the SIOCGSTAMP ioctl to prevent multiple delays if multiple packets
come in around the same time.