* Fix EDNS0 compliance

Do SizeAndDo in the server (ScrubWriter) and remove all uses of this
from the plugins. Also *always* do it. This is to get into compliance
for https://dnsflagday.net/.

The pkg/edns0 now exports the EDNS0 options we understand; this is
exported to allow plugins add things there. The *rewrite* plugin used
this to add custom EDNS0 option codes that the server needs to
understand.

This also needs a new release of miekg/dns because it triggered a
race-condition that was basicly there forever.

See:
* https://github.com/miekg/dns/issues/857
* https://github.com/miekg/dns/pull/859

Running a test instance and pointing the https://ednscomp.isc.org/ednscomp
to it shows the tests are now fixed:

~~~
EDNS Compliance Tester
Checking: 'miek.nl' as at 2018-12-01T17:53:15Z

miek.nl. @147.75.204.203 (drone.coredns.io.): dns=ok edns=ok edns1=ok edns@512=ok ednsopt=ok edns1opt=ok do=ok ednsflags=ok docookie=ok edns512tcp=ok optlist=ok
miek.nl. @2604:1380:2002:a000::1 (drone.coredns.io.): dns=ok edns=ok edns1=ok edns@512=ok ednsopt=ok edns1opt=ok do=ok ednsflags=ok docookie=ok edns512tcp=ok optlist=ok

All Ok
Codes
ok - test passed.
~~~
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>

* typos in comments
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>