* Default to upstream to self

This is a backwards incompatible change.

This is a massive (cleanup) PR where we default to resolving external
names by the coredns process itself, instead of directly forwarding them
to some upstream.

This ignores any arguments `upstream` may have had and makes it depend
on proxy/forward configuration in the Corefile. This allows resolved
upstream names to be cached and we have better healthchecking of the
upstreams. It also means there is only one way to resolve names, by
either using the proxy or forward plugin.

The proxy/forward lookup.go functions have been removed. This also
lessen the dependency on proxy, meaning deprecating proxy will become
easier. Some tests have been removed as well, or moved to the top-level
test directory as they now require a full coredns process instead of
just the plugin.

For the etcd plugin, the entire StubZone resolving is *dropped*! This
was a hacky (but working) solution to say the least. If someone cares
deeply it can be brought back (maybe)?

The pkg/upstream is now very small and almost does nothing. Also the
New() function was changed to return a pointer to upstream.Upstream. It
also returns only one parameter, so any stragglers using it will
encounter a compile error.

All documentation has been adapted. This affected the following plugins:
* etcd
* file
* auto
* secondary
* federation
* template
* route53

A followup PR will make any upstream directives with arguments an error,
right now they are ignored.
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>

* Fix etcd build - probably still fails unit test
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>

* Slightly smarter lookup check in upstream
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>

* Compilez
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>