Not sure why this is proving so difficult.. pointers are hard? [Was
tempted to rollback all tweaks here, but the original issue we're fixing
it too important to not have a proper fix].

But we need to make a copy of the message at the earliest point in the
handler because we are changing it (adding an opt rr). If we do this on
the original message (which is a pointer) we change it (obvs). When
undoing those changes we do work on a copy.

Re: testing. There isn't a explicit test for this, so I've added on to
the top-level test/ directory, which indeed makes the issue visible:

master:

~~~
go test -v -run=TestLookupCacheWithoutEdns
=== RUN   TestLookupCacheWithoutEdns
    cache_test.go:154: Expected no OPT RR, but got:
        ;; OPT PSEUDOSECTION:
        ; EDNS: version 0; flags: do; udp: 2048
--- FAIL: TestLookupCacheWithoutEdns (0.01s)
FAIL
~~~

This branch:

~~~
% go test -v -run=TestLookupCacheWithoutEdns
=== RUN   TestLookupCacheWithoutEdns
--- PASS: TestLookupCacheWithoutEdns (0.01s)
PASS
ok  	github.com/coredns/coredns/test	0.109s
~~~
Signed-off-by: Miek Gieben <miek@miek.nl>