// so we can't assume the connection is still alive. And if it's not alive, pConn likely got deleted
// so we can't assume the connection is still alive. And if it's not alive, pConn likely got deleted
// either refetch from the hash tables, or invent an out parameter on WriteBytesForConnection and ConsumeRemoteClose to better propagate the close state of the connection
// either refetch from the hash tables, or invent an out parameter on WriteBytesForConnection and ConsumeRemoteClose to better propagate the close state of the connection