Revert "Fix for NDK issue 360. dlclose() skipped pre-API 28. This fixes weird crashes during uninit."

This reverts commit 14f698fcf289261946aefd0000dc5989062cf423.

The data source implementation of a ma_pcm_rb could possibly return a
frame count of 0 which would in turn result in
ma_data_source_read_pcm_frames() returning MA_AT_END which does not
make sense for a ring buffer since it has no notion of an end.

There is no notion of an "end" in a ring buffer. Also, this result is
returned when the operation completed successfully which makes a result
code other than MA_SUCCESS confusing.

With this commit, when targeting pthreads with the -pthread, the engine
will allow threading with it's internal resource manager.

Public issue https://github.com/mackron/miniaudio/issues/855

Support for this was added to Emscripten 3.1.70. Currently only
querying the quantum size is supported. I believe support for
configuring the quantum size is coming later in Web Audio 1.1.

Compilation with versions of Emscripten earlier than 3.1.70 is still
supported.

ma_resampler_init has three parameters, not two. Add the missing
pAllocationCallbacks argument in the example code.

This commit removes the calls to ma_device__set_state() and replaces
them with a call to ma_device_stop() which is the intended way for
backends to change the state of the device. In addition, this comes
with the added effect of firing the stop callback when a reroute fails.

This change makes it so that setBufferCapacityInFrames() and
setFramesPerDataCallback() can be opted-in if explicitly requested in
the device config.

This also adds back enableCompatibilityWorkarounds in order to prevent
anyone's build from breaking when updating. This will be removed again
in the 0.12 branch.

Fix rare crash during uninit where the streams got closed by worker thread (re-routing) and never re-opened.

AAudio re-routing slightly improved. Retrying re-routing at most three times. If some BlueTooth device goes nuts and toggles connection state back and forth, we bail out.